Where’s your homework? The dog ate it. Who broke the vase? The dog knocked it over. Hey, who farted? That was the dog! There’s a mess on the floor! Oh, must be that dog again. It’s just so easy to blame the dog! They are frisky, they get into things, they have no discretion about passing some gas, and they can’t talk back.
Signs Your Dog May Show That Look Like Guilt
Sometimes it’s hard to tell who does a better job of reading who’s behavior! Our dogs can actually read our facial and body cues and interpret the tones of our voices. They can tell when we are sad. They know something bad might happen if we start pointing and raise our voices.
They even learn our routines. They know about the time you are coming home, feeding them and going to bed. So how about us? Are we as good at reading their behavior as they are at reading us? Your dog will give you many signals of what they are feeling or reacting to in the moment. It is up to you to understand the context, your dog’s disposition and interpret what their behavior.
Have you seen the guilty look on your dog? The body is low. The tail is tucked. The dog looks at you, staring with wide, pleading eyes. The dog might blink or look away. You might see your dog cowering and skulking away from you. Yawning does not mean your dog is ignoring you or is bored. The yawning is a sign of passivity.
While we are interpreting these behaviors as signs of guilt, they are actually signs of submission. When you are upset with your dog or blaming your dog, they will engage in submissive behavior in response to you.
Body Language
Some signs your dog may give that you are likely to interpret as guilt include:
– Cowering
– Yawning
– Low Tail Carriage
– Whale Eye
Other Signs
More things to look for are:
– Engaging In Calming Behaviors
– Licking Their Lips And Stretching
– Slinking Away When Voices Are Raised
The History of Dogs Feeling Guilt
There is actually a history of how man has treated canines when they believe they did something wrong. The Avesta, an ancient Zoroastrian religious text, considered dogs to be capable of “willful” offenses and ordered that they be punished with mutilation.
There are images of dogs being owned by pharaohs in Egypt. Ancient Greeks and Romans kept dogs. In medieval Europe, misbehaving dogs were tried in court on criminal charges such as assault and murder; with punishments that ranged from jail to death. Pet-keeping was not generally accepted in Europe until the end of the 17th century.
The middle classes embraced dogs in the 18th century. Dogs became popular as pets in the era of Queen Victoria, who herself had companion dogs. The Kennel Club was founded in 1873. The American Humane Society was founded in 1877 with the purpose of promoting the bonds between people and animals and the kind treatment of animals.
Much of the early work of humane organizations in America focused on treatment of horses and women. It has been in more contemporary times that the focus has been on the rescue and care of dogs. Public education promotes teaching owners how to train their dogs and give them proper care.
Science Behind Dogs Feeling Guilt
When you are blaming someone, you might expect the reactions to be shame or guilt – maybe even embarrassment. Scientists have been interested in studying how dogs react to humans. When we think the dog is acting guilty, it is not guilt at all.
Alexandra Horowitz from Barnard College has conducted studies to learn more about a dog’s capacity to feel guilt and blame. The owners of dogs told the dog to ignore a treat and left the room. While the owner was gone, the researcher either fed the dog the treat or took the treat out of the room. When the owner returned to the room and there was no treat, they were told the dog either had or had not eaten the treat.
When owners thought the dog ate the treat, the dogs were reprimanded and the dogs looked guilty. The dogs that did not eat the treat looked more guilty than the dogs who had eaten the treat. The guilty look is a submissive response, which is the dog’s way of resolving conflict with the owner.
Subsequent research on an owner’s reactions to their dog has shown that dogs can be confused when owners become upset with them for acts they did not do or do not remember. Dogs will actually have more behavior problems when owners chastise them. The dog and owner can get into a cycle of destruction and appeasement.
Training Your Dog to Behave
Chewing is part of normal dog behavior. Dogs, both in the wild and domesticated, will chew bones to keep their jaws strong and teeth clean. Puppies will go through a stage of teething up to the age of 6 months. During this phase, you can help your pup with appropriate chew toys and special dog toys that can be frozen. Dogs enjoy chewing and will chew on pretty much anything – toys, sticks, or maybe your shoes.
They will chew for fun, stimulation, or out of anxiety. It can be a problem if the dog is chewing and destroying things or if the chewing is related to other behavior problems that need to be addressed. Here are some things for you to consider if your dog is having a chewing problem:
– Separation Anxiety – Dogs will chew to alleviate the stress of being left alone.
– Fabric Sucking – Dogs will suck on carpets and fabrics if they were weaned too early. The behavior can become compulsive and the owner will need professional assistance to address the behavior.
– Hunger – Dogs on a restricted diet may be inclined to chew on things that smell like food because they are hungry.
There are other reasons dogs chew and things that you can do about it. Simply providing toys to chew on is not going to be enough to prevent problem chewing. Here are some tips to manage the behavior:
– Put things away so that your dog cannot access things you do not want them to chew on. Put away the shoes and laundry.
– Provide your dog with appropriate chew items and chew bones. Do not feed the dog bones from the table. Provide natural chew bones made for dogs.
– Identify the times of day when your dog chews and provide an option such as a puzzle chew toy at those times.
– Supervise your dog and if you see the dog chewing on something the dog should not have, take it away, say, “No” and give the dog something they can chew. Seek professional help if your dog is aggressive when you take the object.
– Do not give the dog the run of the house when you are not home. Keep the dog confined where there is less likelihood of getting into trouble.
– Make sure your dog is getting enough exercise and attention.
– Do not offer your dog old items to chew on. Your dog cannot tell the difference between an old shoe and a good shoe.
– Teach your dog what is acceptable for chewing and provide your dog with a balance of exercise, diet, and safe spaces with appropriate objects for chewing to provide a safe environment.
“The guilty look on your dog’s face is actually a submissive response, not guilt.”
Tips & Things to Know
1️⃣ Understand your dog’s body language: After reading this text, readers should be aware of the various signs of guilt or submission that dogs may display, such as cowering, yawning, low tail carriage, and whale eye. By being able to interpret these behaviors, readers can better understand their dog’s emotions and reactions in different situations.
2️⃣ Avoid blaming or reprimanding your dog: It is important to recognize that dogs do not feel guilt in the same way that humans do. When dogs exhibit the so-called “guilty look,” it is actually a submissive response to resolve conflict with their owners. Therefore, blaming or chastising a dog can lead to behavior problems and a cycle of destruction and appeasement. Instead, focus on positive reinforcement and training techniques to encourage desired behavior.
3️⃣ Manage chewing behavior: Chewing is a normal behavior for dogs, but it can become problematic if they are destructive or if it is related to other behavior issues. Readers should consider factors such as separation anxiety, fabric sucking, and hunger as potential reasons for chewing. To manage this behavior, it is important to provide appropriate chew toys, put away items that should not be chewed on, supervise the dog, and seek professional help if needed. Additionally, ensuring the dog receives enough exercise and attention can help prevent excessive chewing.
Frequently Asked Questions, Answered ✅
1. Why do dogs sometimes have a guilty look on their face?
– Dogs may exhibit a guilty look as a submissive response to their owner’s anger or disappointment, even if they don’t remember or understand what they did wrong.
2. How can we interpret a dog’s behavior and understand what they’re feeling?
– By paying attention to their body language, such as cowering, yawning, low tail carriage, and whale eye, we can interpret a dog’s behavior and understand their emotions.
3. What is the history of dogs being blamed or punished for their actions?
– Throughout history, dogs have been blamed for misbehavior and even punished for it. In ancient times, dogs were considered capable of “willful” offenses and were mutilated as punishment. In medieval Europe, misbehaving dogs were even tried in court on criminal charges.
4. Is the guilty look on a dog’s face actually a sign of guilt?
– No, the guilty look on a dog’s face is actually a submissive response to their owner’s anger or disappointment. It is their way of resolving conflict with their owner.
5. How can we train our dogs to behave and prevent problem chewing?
– To prevent problem chewing, it is important to provide appropriate chew items and bones for the dog, put away items that they should not chew on, supervise them, and provide enough exercise and attention. It is also important to teach the dog what is acceptable for chewing and provide a safe environment.
